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sims4lifeee21
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I read the whole thing.. Stress a horrible thing 😦 I hope you feel relaxed soon!

cora626
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I hope thi mb gs look up for you. No one should feel that way.

simgguk
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

i really hope things get better for you, dear! please let us know how everything works out ❤️

simmingbee
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I completely feel this. My work situation was super stressful and it made my anxiety 1000 times worse! Hopefully the doctor will be able to help or at least recommend something!

ohhiplumbob
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I’m so sorry love. Let us know how you get on at the Dr, I have a guided meditation app that I use, a friend went to the Dr for stress & they recommended she try meditation. Sending love ❤

neopixiesims
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I hope the appointment helps and that you feel better. I’m sorry this is happening. Sending positive thoughts your way ♥

Thank you all so, so much for the replies to my post yesterday. You have no idea how much I appreciate every single one of you commenting. Seriously, thank you. And I don’t want anyone else to feel the way I’m feeling but I can’t deny that it is comforting to know other people understand how I’m feeling and have gone through something similar so I know I’m not alone.

I went to the doctor and he said what I thought he would say – it sounds like an overload of work and conflicting information from managers at work has caused stress and it’s just built up and then released itself yesterday.

He said I’m not fit for work at the moment and to sign myself off for a week. Take that time to not think about work, to do things I enjoy, to relax, to take walks and exercise. Just focus on time for myself basically. After that, I can go back to him to see if I’m ready to return or if I need more time.

I called my supervisor just and let her know. Talking about it made me emotional again and she could obviously tell so she asked me if I’m ok and I just burst into tears again. I told her I knew I’d been stressed recently but I didn’t think it was affecting me this much and that yesterday was like a switch had just flipped and it all came out. She told me to take care of myself and we’ll talk next week.

Again, thank you all so much for the support well-wishes ♥

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v01demort
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

Do NOT move in with him!!! It only makes the break up more complicated!

Don’t worry, I won’t rush into anything. But even if we do move in together in the next few months, it shouldn’t be too complicated. Neither of us are far from our homes, it would only be renting a place for a few months so there isn’t a huge commitment and we don’t have anything shared that we would need to decide where to goes or anything like that.

ohhiplumbob
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

I think you need to talk to him about this hun, while i know it can help to get it out to just anyone he’s not a mind reader and you need to bring some of your issues up with him. Relationships are hard! x

I know right, they are so hard sometimes. I am going to talk to him about some of this stuff on Saturday, specifically the holiday thing because that’s what’s bothering me still after I had a good sleep last night and calmed down. A lot of the other stuff I think was just bothering me more because I was so stressed and tired yesterday!

simpyre
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

he needs to see that he’s got to focus on *something*, on you, on getting that job he wants, on saving money or whatever. just. not irresponsibly act like a kid who doesn’t have a care in the world. :c sorry hon.

simpyre
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

that tv show thing is a total dick move. pardon my french. I can absolutely see which all of this coming together at once would kind of piss you off. maybe take a communication break for the rest of the day? that way it shouldn’t escalate more and maybe tomorrow (when he tells you about the presentation) things will already look a lot better. (fingers crossed that he’ll get the job) but yeah, I agree that you need to tell him how you feel one of these days, face-to-face.

Things are already better, you were right! He called me after he finished work last night and we talked about the presentation and some other things. He normally is pretty good at taking responsibility for things and getting things sorted, I think that’s why it was bothering me. But he’s done his presentation already and he’s going to hear back in a few hours if he got the job or not!

elliesimple
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

If he loves you he will understand

You’re totally right and if I talk to him about all these things I know for sure he would apologise and we would work it out. So I’m gonna bring some stuff up when I see him on Saturday and let him know how I was feeling.

windenburger
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

Omg dump him he’s such a jerk and obviously doesn’t care about ur feelings WTFFF

Aww, I know it makes him seem like massive jerk after that huge long rant I made and all the negative things I said but that’s just been things that have happened over the past couple of days. Normally, like 95% of the time, he’s good to me and communicative and shows that he loves me. I think yesterday I was just super stressed and it made everything so much worse than it actually was. There’s only 1 or 2 things that are bothering me now after having a rest (the holiday thing and not listening to what I tell him sometimes) which I’m gonna bring up with him on Saturday in-person and we can sort it out.

redhotchilisimblr
replied to your photo “This really pisses me off. When I last played everyone was off to…”

It’s a cc, maybe some file got corrupted ! I’d the same issue one month ago.

hopelesslydevotedsimmer
replied to your photo “This really pisses me off. When I last played everyone was off to…”

maybe some CC or mod is messed up? Try taking all CC out and loading the game and see if you still have the issue

I’ve already tried taking out all of my CC and it still happens and I’ve tried loading multiple different saves as well. It’s been happening for quite a while now but it’s really starting to frustrate me now. With a full house of sims (or near enough) it’s extremely annoying to have them all reset when I need that time that they’re away at school/work to do other things.

pixelepa
replied to your photo “This really pisses me off. When I last played everyone was off to…”

the same thing in my game.. wtf?! why eaxis can’t do a patch or whatever for this problem?! it’s soooo annoying and stressfull

Yeah, seriously. Other bugs have been annoying but this one takes the cake for me right now.

ohhiplumbob
replied to your photo “This really pisses me off. When I last played everyone was off to…”

I thought the game just loaded you exactly where you left off, how weird? How have I never noticed!

It has done before and it would previously only do it when I was switching households but now it’s even when I’m loading the current household. They’ll also reset to being outside the house if I load in at nighttime when they’re supposed to be asleep!

Maybe you’re not being affected by the bug then? Do you use a lot of CC?

queencorrupted
replied to your photo “This really pisses me off. When I last played everyone was off to…”

This happens to me too – Sims 4 needs to get its shit straight.

True dat, I just don’t want to play right now. I mean, I do want to play, I have so many things planned and ideas I want to play out but I don’t want to deal with this shitty bug. It just ruins my motivation.