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sims4lifeee21
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I read the whole thing.. Stress a horrible thing 😦 I hope you feel relaxed soon!

cora626
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I hope thi mb gs look up for you. No one should feel that way.

simgguk
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

i really hope things get better for you, dear! please let us know how everything works out ❤️

simmingbee
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I completely feel this. My work situation was super stressful and it made my anxiety 1000 times worse! Hopefully the doctor will be able to help or at least recommend something!

ohhiplumbob
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I’m so sorry love. Let us know how you get on at the Dr, I have a guided meditation app that I use, a friend went to the Dr for stress & they recommended she try meditation. Sending love ❤

neopixiesims
replied to your post “i think i’m struggling[[MOR] i ended up going home from work today…”

I hope the appointment helps and that you feel better. I’m sorry this is happening. Sending positive thoughts your way ♥

Thank you all so, so much for the replies to my post yesterday. You have no idea how much I appreciate every single one of you commenting. Seriously, thank you. And I don’t want anyone else to feel the way I’m feeling but I can’t deny that it is comforting to know other people understand how I’m feeling and have gone through something similar so I know I’m not alone.

I went to the doctor and he said what I thought he would say – it sounds like an overload of work and conflicting information from managers at work has caused stress and it’s just built up and then released itself yesterday. 

He said I’m not fit for work at the moment and to sign myself off for a week. Take that time to not think about work, to do things I enjoy, to relax, to take walks and exercise. Just focus on time for myself basically. After that, I can go back to him to see if I’m ready to return or if I need more time.

I called my supervisor just and let her know. Talking about it made me emotional again and she could obviously tell so she asked me if I’m ok and I just burst into tears again. I told her I knew I’d been stressed recently but I didn’t think it was affecting me this much and that yesterday was like a switch had just flipped and it all came out. She told me to take care of myself and we’ll talk next week.

Again, thank you all so much for the support well-wishes ♥

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you guys honestly keep me going with this shit, thank you, i love you all

lyllian-lykaios
replied to your photoset “Triss: “Andrew, that wasn’t what it looked like!”-Andrew: “That’s what…”

Nuuu andrew believe ;-;

He’s too hurt right now to think straight 😦

peacemaker-ic
replied to your photoset “Andrew: “What the… HELL IS GOING ON HERE?”-Triss: “Andrew!”-Andrew: “I…”

you are such a douchebag frank. Not even any respect for your brother

He only really cares about himself tbh. He’s top dog and he just thinks of Andrew as his nerdy twin.

simpyre
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officially time for Triss and Andrew to get their own place

marquis-de-bechdel
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WHAT A SKET GRRR

duskysimmer
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Omg!!������

nervoussimblr
replied to your photoset “Frank: “No no no, you don’t have to do that. Just… Wait.”

boiiiii

peacemaker-ic
replied to your photoset “Frank: “No no no, you don’t have to do that. Just… Wait.”

Unhand her you brute!

(ง •̀_•́)ง

ddeathflower
replied to your photoset “Frank: “No no no, you don’t have to do that. Just… Wait.”

let go of her arm dickwad ༼ง=ಠ益ಠ=༽ง

marquis-de-bechdel
replied to your photoset “Frank: “No no no, you don’t have to do that. Just… Wait.”

oh jeez i hate frank so much??? he’s a real creep

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simpyre
replied to your post “i’m actualkly so fucking angry and disappointed and upset right…”

I’m so sorry *offers hugs* can’t he get on a bus or sth? he knew he was supposed to come over, so he shouldn’t have gotten drunk like that. if you tell him you need him, he better get his butt over to your place. :c

lazy-pixels
replied to your post “i’m actualkly so fucking angry and disappointed and upset right…”

I’m so sorry to hear that you aren’t good. What I learned from boys is that they’re not bright bright and when you are not good you have to tell them

letichespixels
replied to your post “i’m actualkly so fucking angry and disappointed and upset right…”

I’m sorry to hear that lovely 😦 boys can be real assholes at times. And jobs suck. Hopefully he realises the added stress he’s putting on you and smartens up.

Thanks everyone for your comments. 

The first thing he said to me when he woke up was that he lied about doing cocaine/mdma, which made me even more mad and he couldn’t explain why he lied about that, he said doesn’t know why he does it. 

So I basically went off on one at him about how upset and disappointed I was with how he behaved and he was super apologetic and said it would never happen again and that he didn’t mean to hurt me. I think he truly realised how much he let me down and he was very sorry.

I was still mad at him for a while but I went round to his and he worked it out and everything is back to normal and flowers and rainbows again. Thankfully!

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v01demort
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

Do NOT move in with him!!! It only makes the break up more complicated!

Don’t worry, I won’t rush into anything. But even if we do move in together in the next few months, it shouldn’t be too complicated. Neither of us are far from our homes, it would only be renting a place for a few months so there isn’t a huge commitment and we don’t have anything shared that we would need to decide where to goes or anything like that.

ohhiplumbob
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

I think you need to talk to him about this hun, while i know it can help to get it out to just anyone he’s not a mind reader and you need to bring some of your issues up with him. Relationships are hard! x

I know right, they are so hard sometimes. I am going to talk to him about some of this stuff on Saturday, specifically the holiday thing because that’s what’s bothering me still after I had a good sleep last night and calmed down. A lot of the other stuff I think was just bothering me more because I was so stressed and tired yesterday!

simpyre
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

he needs to see that he’s got to focus on *something*, on you, on getting that job he wants, on saving money or whatever. just. not irresponsibly act like a kid who doesn’t have a care in the world. :c sorry hon.

simpyre
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

that tv show thing is a total dick move. pardon my french. I can absolutely see which all of this coming together at once would kind of piss you off. maybe take a communication break for the rest of the day? that way it shouldn’t escalate more and maybe tomorrow (when he tells you about the presentation) things will already look a lot better. (fingers crossed that he’ll get the job) but yeah, I agree that you need to tell him how you feel one of these days, face-to-face.

Things are already better, you were right! He called me after he finished work last night and we talked about the presentation and some other things. He normally is pretty good at taking responsibility for things and getting things sorted, I think that’s why it was bothering me. But he’s done his presentation already and he’s going to hear back in a few hours if he got the job or not!

elliesimple
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

If he loves you he will understand

You’re totally right and if I talk to him about all these things I know for sure he would apologise and we would work it out. So I’m gonna bring some stuff up when I see him on Saturday and let him know how I was feeling.

windenburger
replied to your post “I need to rant. Sorry for no read more and massive wall of text but…”

Omg dump him he’s such a jerk and obviously doesn’t care about ur feelings WTFFF

Aww, I know it makes him seem like massive jerk after that huge long rant I made and all the negative things I said but that’s just been things that have happened over the past couple of days. Normally, like 95% of the time, he’s good to me and communicative and shows that he loves me. I think yesterday I was just super stressed and it made everything so much worse than it actually was. There’s only 1 or 2 things that are bothering me now after having a rest (the holiday thing and not listening to what I tell him sometimes) which I’m gonna bring up with him on Saturday in-person and we can sort it out. 

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@indielectualll I listen to music sometimes but when I’m doing editing for hours it gets a bit mundane and I need something a bit more engaging to keep me going. The YouTube recommendations are a good shout though, YouTube knows me pretty well at this point lmao

@ridgeport SAME. I love true crime documentaries/stories and I also like to listen to horror stories too (but not too much because I end up freaking myself out lol). Do you have any specific recommendations for channels/playlists/podcasts?

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simspirashun
replied to your post “[[MOR] Having a small panic…

The guy I’m seeing, who I really…”

An old boyfriend of mine joined the Air Force while we were dating. It’s not a easy conversation but just try to keep an open mind. I hope you two come to the right decision 🙂

simbeeps
replied to your post “[[MOR] Having a small panic…

The guy I’m seeing, who I really…”

Just the fact that he is including you in the decision says a lot. The only piece of advice I’m comfortable giving is to say that you should tell him exactly how you feel. Not as a way to sway him one way or another, but as a way to make sure you both hear/say what is going on inside your mind. I wish the best for you both!

simpyre
replied to your post “[[MOR] Having a small panic…

The guy I’m seeing, who I really…”

I absolutely get that it’s frightening and long distance is difficult… but if he asked for your opinion he’s still contemplating whether or not to go, and he’s considerate of your feelings. I really hope you two can work it out ❤

calisimgirl
replied to your post “[[MOR] Having a small panic…

The guy I’m seeing, who I really…”

10 years? I know boot camp is like 2-3 months and he comes home for a little… then he gets orders somewhere. I hope things work out hun ♡

kismet-sims
replied to your post “[[MOR] Having a small panic…

The guy I’m seeing, who I really…”

I hope things work out in your favor!

Thanks so much everyone for the replies and the advice. I feel a lot better about the situation now and you were all right who said he’s talking to me about it so wants to include me in the decision. We talked and I don’t think (I hope) he’s going to do it. It wouldn’t be for another year or 2 anyway so there’s lots of time to still think and talk about it until then. Panic over, haha.

to-infinity-and-beyond-simblr
replied to your post “simpyre
answered your question “Order Error”
me…”

I got a hold of someone at ea and they told me that the best you can do is wait it out because it’s in such high demand and that it’s not even available to download yet it will be in a few hours

@cloxface @meisiu

Yep, I got through to them and basically got told the same thing – just to wait. Hopefully it won’t take long because it’s gonna take another 45 minutes for me to download it as well :/

simpyre
answered your question “Order Error”

me too. I’m currently in queue for a live chat to see if they can cancel my previous order so I can redo it. if there’s a different/easier solution to this I’ll let you know.

Perfect – I sent them a tweet about it as well!

cloxface
answered your question “Order Error”

I’ve been having the same problem, I’m hoping it’s just one of those “everyone is buying it and you just have to wait” deals.

Yeah I assume it’s something like that. Pretty annoying though that a bunch of people are able to play and we just have to wait :<

meisiu
answered your question “Order Error”

Oh god i just checked my order history and it says payment pending on it 4 times because i tried to buy it 4 times >.<

Ooooh, buddy, that’s not good! Definitely get onto live chat or shoot them an email saying what happened – you don’t want to be charged 4x!