v01demort
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Do NOT move in with him!!! It only makes the break up more complicated!

Don’t worry, I won’t rush into anything. But even if we do move in together in the next few months, it shouldn’t be too complicated. Neither of us are far from our homes, it would only be renting a place for a few months so there isn’t a huge commitment and we don’t have anything shared that we would need to decide where to goes or anything like that.

ohhiplumbob
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I think you need to talk to him about this hun, while i know it can help to get it out to just anyone he’s not a mind reader and you need to bring some of your issues up with him. Relationships are hard! x

I know right, they are so hard sometimes. I am going to talk to him about some of this stuff on Saturday, specifically the holiday thing because that’s what’s bothering me still after I had a good sleep last night and calmed down. A lot of the other stuff I think was just bothering me more because I was so stressed and tired yesterday!

simpyre
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he needs to see that he’s got to focus on *something*, on you, on getting that job he wants, on saving money or whatever. just. not irresponsibly act like a kid who doesn’t have a care in the world. :c sorry hon.

simpyre
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that tv show thing is a total dick move. pardon my french. I can absolutely see which all of this coming together at once would kind of piss you off. maybe take a communication break for the rest of the day? that way it shouldn’t escalate more and maybe tomorrow (when he tells you about the presentation) things will already look a lot better. (fingers crossed that he’ll get the job) but yeah, I agree that you need to tell him how you feel one of these days, face-to-face.

Things are already better, you were right! He called me after he finished work last night and we talked about the presentation and some other things. He normally is pretty good at taking responsibility for things and getting things sorted, I think that’s why it was bothering me. But he’s done his presentation already and he’s going to hear back in a few hours if he got the job or not!

elliesimple
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If he loves you he will understand

You’re totally right and if I talk to him about all these things I know for sure he would apologise and we would work it out. So I’m gonna bring some stuff up when I see him on Saturday and let him know how I was feeling.

windenburger
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Omg dump him he’s such a jerk and obviously doesn’t care about ur feelings WTFFF

Aww, I know it makes him seem like massive jerk after that huge long rant I made and all the negative things I said but that’s just been things that have happened over the past couple of days. Normally, like 95% of the time, he’s good to me and communicative and shows that he loves me. I think yesterday I was just super stressed and it made everything so much worse than it actually was. There’s only 1 or 2 things that are bothering me now after having a rest (the holiday thing and not listening to what I tell him sometimes) which I’m gonna bring up with him on Saturday in-person and we can sort it out.