Why can’t you play? 😭

I just haven’t had time, ‘nons.

I’ve been so busy with college and work and the freetime that I’ve had I just haven’t had to the motivation to play. I’m pretty much on holiday from now for the next 2 weeks though, so hopefully I’ll get around to playing some and catching up with some of my fave simblrs and see what’s new!

Also, I met someone so I’ve been spending a lot of my freetime with him as well 

Hi, I’m a fairly new simblr however Im almost on gen 2 yet I’m not getting any likes what so ever. Do u have any tips for new simblrs.

Ok so this message was sent over 2 months ago. I’m really sorry anon and I doubt you’re even reading this now or following me anymore lol but here’s some tips I guess?

  • Make sure your screenshot quality is good. Honestly this is probably the biggest thing that’s gonna keep people interested in what you’re posting because people like to look at aesthetically pleasing things. Get rid of your plumbobs, use tab mode, get some camera mods just play around with techniques to get better and more interesting screenshots. Obviously better graphical quality is going to make a big difference too.
  • Interact with people. Send people messages (off-anon) and just start talking. Reblog things and get involved with challenges or anything like that.
  • Share CC. This is definitely the biggest thing that will get you followers or just boost your visibility. People love free shit and love putting new things into their game. Even if it’s just recolours, which is pretty much the only thing I’ve done with CC, it’ll help with attracting people to your blog.

I think that’s about it tbh. I can’t think of anything else right now because it’s almost 11:30 and I’m meant to be sleeping right now because I have to get up for college at 5:30 but I tried. If I think of anything else I’ll add it later. I hope this helped at least a little bit? If you want more advice or anything feel free to send me another message, preferably off anon but if you’re shy I get that.

a-spoopybean
answered to your photoset “I know I haven’t been around here for a long time but I am actually…”

you’re stunning! :0 I’m pretty excited for the new expansion, but like everyone else waiting for pets and season to come :]

suavekiss
answered to your photoset “I know I haven’t been around here for a long time but I am actually…”

You’re so gorgeous!! ur eyes r staring right into my soul…I am so pumped for the next expansion i want it NOW. I have so many plans already. :))

alittlecornerofsims
answered to your photoset “I know I haven’t been around here for a long time but I am actually…”

I eeeeh. they should make pets or seasons. thn do all the other stuff.

@simsilla

Thanks guys, I love you! ♥

I’m not sure how I feel about the new expansion but I haven’t really looked into it very much yet. I think the thing I’m worried about the most is if the apartments aren’t like the TS2 ones? So far I’ve only seen the high-rise ones, which are cool but can we make normal apartments, like bungalows or something? I’m also mad that there’s no new life states again.

And hopefully Pets will be next after this one guys, fingers crossed!

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personal rant below

If you’ve been following me for a while you probably know I broke up with my bf of over 6 years about a year ago now. We have a mutual friend who I’ve started to speaking to a lot more recently as we kind of drifted apart some time ago and hadn’t really talked for a few years.

Anyway, today he randomly asked me if I’d consider being friends with my ex and I said no because it would be too difficult and awkward. He said he wants us to talk again and that we were good together, even if it isn’t a love-relationship anymore and that I “can’t go through life removing someone I once held so dear and special” and that we should at least be friends. I told him I wouldn’t say never but it’s too soon for me right now.

I’m going to assume he’s been speaking to my ex and this is where this has come from because otherwise it’s just totally out of the blue. That makes me really uncomfortable and so does the fact that he said I shouldn’t remove someone from my life that I once loved. Because first of all, it’s nothing to do with him. Second of all, he clearly doesn’t understand how fucking difficult it would be to stay friends with someone you’ve been in relationship with for over 6 years and practically lived the whole beginning of your adult life with. It wouldn’t work. I’m not saying it’s impossible but I’m sure it’s not easy and I don’t want that in my life right now.

Well anyway, he didn’t say anything since I basically said I wasn’t interested, and that was a few hours ago. So I just sent him a random message, being kind of funny and normally he would say something funny back or make fun of me or ask some kind of question. In short, I’d normally get some kind of reaction. But all he’s replied with is “Ok”.

What the fuck? Am I just reading into this too much or is he like, pissed at me for not wanting to remain friends with my ex?? This is absurd and I’m just not going to talk to him until he talks to me because I won’t put up with childish bullshit like that. I would kind of get it if we were all really close and he missed that but guys, the 3 of us haven’t been close for literally years. The first 1 or 2 years of our relationship we were all really close and we’d speak to each other every day. But then we drifted and barely talked for the last few years so what the fuck?